The resurrection of being born again to rise above out of circumstances relaxing in time of darkness given to God the troubles coming forth like the sun's rising. To know God is a virtual solution because life has a way of knotting the air right out of you with no warning, and you never know when someone will come along and snatch the rug from under your feet.

No matter how hard you try to give people the benefit of the doubt, they always let you down. But through it all, you still have to keep your head up " and lean not unto your own understanding" according to the bible, we are to trust God at his word.

You Deserve To Be Happy

There are no shortcuts In life sometimes you need to face your problems and accept them as reality. Believe it or not this can cause a mental breakdown. Where one may refuse to deal with issue at hand. Looking for a easy way out, that may not be possible at this given time. For me it was to turn to the only help I knew; it is through the Son (Jesus Christ) to the Father where I found peace. This may not be a solution for you but there are other alterative avaible.

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How I over came depression

Asking, how do you learn to relax in dark times? A question I ask myself many times. It was not until I learned to lean on Christ who helped me find peace during darkness. Not to say that there is no pain, but only for a moment allowing me to go through, then I let go. Because there is no way for people to see you in a situation; it is their way or no way. So why waste precious time when they do not hear you or care to hear you. But God knows best he will heal you and make you hold again so you can relax in times of darkness. So don't give up even if you lose the fight; walk away a let them have it because you win, even if they fail to see your side. Hold to your belief and let no one take the truth from you. Give it to the Lord, and he will make it better. Darkness is not always a bad thing you can take the opportunity to refresh, and relax you mind.

Darkness is the time of rejuvenation and preparation for the times of light; it is no less than a blessing.

For most of us, darkness is something undesirable and unacceptable. However, I must tell you, if you think so, your assertion is prejudiced. Light and darkness are worldly realities, and there is no denying that they intervene most naturally.

The world is going through one of its darkest times; however, this might also be a time of reflection. And no matter how harsh the circumstances are, they will not last long; times change, and perhaps that is one of the most delicate realities about the world we inhabit.

Relaxing In a Time of Darkness

For those of you who don't believe in a deity might consider darkness to be painful. You will try your best to resist it and change the course of destiny so that you never face chaos again. In contrast, if you are a believer, you know that God is not a sadist who would derive pleasure from inflicting pain on helpless creatures. God deliberately leads us to trials and tribulation, and no, he does not take pleasure from it. God crafts every trail; however, it is never more than we can handle.

No matter how disorienting, painful, and confusing the circumstances are, you can always have a positive perspective. When we are going through, trials we often resort to digging external causes; we blame others and try to find excuses. However, being able to introspect, loving yourself as a worthy creature of God, and trying to attain self-actualization through prayers would make a lot of difference.

Praying in Darkness

When you pray, you accept that there is something bigger than you, and circumstances are never the cause of pain, but merely the thought of it causes anguish. Darkness is when to relax, relive and have a fresher mind if you have the proper perspective. We love nights, don't we? We got to have a good night’s sleep to have a new start in the morning!

Similarly, there comes a time in everybody's life when we are in the valleys; however, we are just a step away from the peak that we so desperately want to climb. Life is never easy, and it is not always rewarding; however, you have got to back yourself, and with faith in God and his plans, it becomes easier; we start to see beyond our imagination and trust God's plans.

What Does God Achieve With Darkness?

With the darkness we are adapted to relying on God, you will become steadfast on your path. Darkness prepares us to comfort others, feel the suffering! Therefore, if you have true faith, this is a time for you to reinforce your strengths, relax and move ahead in your life. However, it would help if you kept in mind without guidance and faith, darkness is misery, and you will never be able to relax because you would be occupied with catastrophizing all the time. But do not let this be the end of you, you must fight by reaching deep down within you soul and take control. Life will always be a battle.